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@The-N-U-T-Cracker

So.
Just gonna start off by apologizing to my beans, particularly @zanax. You were right. I’m sorry i doubted you for this long.

So, Nia…

We all know Nia.
They’re the bean that always manages to have 38 different vents and claims to throw at you at any given time, each one being slightly more dramatic than the other…

I’ll just get straight to it

One of the things they claim the most is that despite contacting authorities about their abusive household and having physical evidence to back themselves up, not a single person would believe them cause they’re “just a child”. And so-
Y’all remember Shuri, right?
He also fell prey to this lie, and tried to help them out.
They both decided since he’s an adult, if he contacts CPS (or whatever it’s called in Australia) for them, he’ll likely be taken seriously.
And so Nia gave him their general location for the purpose of contacting child protective services and locating nearby homeless shelters.

But when he did just that, what do they do?

they turned around and started literally crying to us that he was one of her abusers, had tracked down their address, and was out to get them.
Fake tears and everything.
If that’s not the most manipulative shit-

They went to me the next day with these sad, emotional vents about this horrible pedo that’s found their location and keeps sending them creepy messages that gave them flashbacks of their sexually abusive father or whatever the heck else, before telling me to stay away from shuri.
and me being the stupid child i am, i ate it all up without question. i mean, this bean was my friend, and all my other friends disliked shuri as well, who was i to doubt?

Hate him or not, he’s still always been one of my closest friends on here, and due to certain things that i won’t bring up, one of the extremely few people that i’m not irrationally terrified will abandon me if i say even the smallest thing wrong-
and so hearing all these things about him was like having the floor vanish from under me
I hit possibly one of the lowest points of my life, i was scared, alone, betrayed, heartbroken…
the best way i can find to describe it is part of my 1AM tired vents to izzy:

and so whenever i speak to certain people, it feels like I’m walking on eggshells
i know if i say one thing wrong, i could lose everything
all the progress i’ve made, all my friendships…
i’d be back to square one
and the only thing I’ve had to keep me going was that knowledge that i’d still have one friend, it wouldn’t be completely over, i can start back again-
but now it turns out that one friend isn’t my friend
he never was
it was all a lie
i really am unlovable.

…So that’s how well I was handling the situation.
Anyways, I brought this up to him because holy hell he better have some good fecking explanations-

And…
he did.
He sent me the screenshots of their snapchat history, showing that Nia messaged him, asked him for help, and then ignored him.
He also shared screenshots of the email he sent to the Child Safety Department of (nia’s area), along with their response.

He hadn’t spoken to them since the allegations, but they were still sending him messages and vents, despite telling everyone that he was a dangerous predator. And i don’t know but something about that just doesn’t really add up.

Fast forward to today, the thing that finally pushed me over the edge-
I got a message from Iz, warning me about them. (edited slightly for clarity)

anyways, you may or may not have heard about that toxic friend that i've been mentioning more and more frequently in the venting chat. this toxic friend just so happens to be nia….
yeah, they once were one of my closest friends. they have been there for me when i needed them, but that doesn't make up for all the pain they've caused me. for the nine or so months i have known them, they have been steadily spinning a story, and a nearly foolproof one, too. for so long, they've kept me emotionally invested, the only sad thing being that i believed the story. the one mistake they made in this story i speak of, was that one doesn't pass out, and then wake up in the middle of a forest.
now, they told me that happened, after we had a long conversation about them being up on the roof of their school, having attempted suicide. this was also when i had a full on panic attack, because i was genuinely worried that they were dead. i turned to so many friends, desperately seeking help. this is where things get a little confusing. i have a friend named robert, and i'm sorry to tell you, he got wrapped up in this too.
i have good reason to believe that, when nia told him that they had attempted suicide once more, that they were also lying, as they have lied to me on numerous occasions. not to mention that, mir is right. with all those things that they claim to have presented the police with, they should've taken action already. they can't take physical abuse lightly, even if there is no proof.

So TL;DR, Nia lied and manipulated everyone, turning people against each other, bringing up false accusations, faking suicide attempts, and stirring up unnecessary drama, all for some quick pity points~

and there’s your hecking tea
enjoy it while it’s warm.

@Pickles group

(rereading that, it doesn’t make much sense does it… maybe i should’ve perfected the recipe a bit longer)

(Makes sense to me)

Deleted user

I'm not gonna say "I told you so."
But I hope it makes sense now.
I'm sure y'all remember when Nia and I were super close.
This is what drove us apart.
I knew they were lying.
And I'm glad you all see it too.

@berlioz

Me, pretending to know who Nia and Shuri are: mmhmm yes, interestinggg

But in all seriousness, I'm sorry you guys got wrapped with a manipulator. That sh!t sucks.

@Pickles group

Me, pretending to know who Nia and Shuri are: mmhmm yes, interestinggg

But in all seriousness, I'm sorry you guys got wrapped with a manipulator. That sh!t sucks.

Nia left just before you came, and shuri… There's a lot of stuff surrounding him

@SpookyScarySnoteleks group

Me, pretending to know who Nia and Shuri are: mmhmm yes, interestinggg

But in all seriousness, I'm sorry you guys got wrapped with a manipulator. That sh!t sucks.

Nia left just before you came, and shuri… There's a lot of stuff surrounding him

I still don't really know who Shuri is

Deleted user

I too could tell some stories about what happened with Nia and I if y'all would like some more information.

@The-N-U-T-Cracker

shuri’s a good bean
he’s just…
not the best at expressing things
he only apppears in certain dms nowadays because after all the things that have come out against him he’s terrified he’ll start drama if he returns to general

@Pickles group

Me, pretending to know who Nia and Shuri are: mmhmm yes, interestinggg

But in all seriousness, I'm sorry you guys got wrapped with a manipulator. That sh!t sucks.

Nia left just before you came, and shuri… There's a lot of stuff surrounding him

I still don't really know who Shuri is

He left GC before you came too. Even I missed a lot of stuff with him, and I've been here a year

Deleted user

I was there when it happened.

man I feel bad now, ngl

Deleted user

I remember I started getting a little suspicious about Nia because they were talking about how their father acted towards them. I remember saying "that's sexual harassment… A little abusive, too" and suddenly the abuse story started.
For those who don't know, a while back my mental health took a deep downwards spiral, and I was diagnosed with a personality disorder. I opened up to Nia about this before I told anyone else. And suddenly, they had a disorder too, despite having never talked about trauma that could have caused it– And we told each other pretty much everything. (And for anyone wondering, it was a misdiagnosis– Actually something different I won't disclose here.)
There would be little things I didn't believe along the way. I remember once they said they were on a beach, and I asked where, and they said "I don't know." There was all this little stuff that just rubbed me wrong.
And then the mother abuse story came to be. I had doubts, especially since I'd see their Instagram had cute comments from their mother, and Nia is very close with their sister, who would have 100000000% said something if Nia was actually being so terribly physically abused. I mean, Nia told stories of being thrown into walls so hard they dented, and being beaten out of consciousness by their brother's girlfriend.
That's kind of where I went ghost. I was too skeptical of the situation to keep associating myself with them.
We'd start talking again, and then stop. And then start again, and then stop.
They told me about suicide attempts too. I understood, as someone who has and does deal with suicidal tendencies myself. I've told friends "um, I just tried something, can you talk to me for a bit?" "I'm really suicidal right now" and "I really want to cut right now. Can you try to distract me?" as well. But what always stood out to me about Nia's situations was that it was always so hopeless. I'd say to tell an adult; they'd say no, they don't trust anyone. I'd say to contact a lifeline; they'd say no, they can't get access to one. There was never any way to get help
And then, a few weeks ago (???) I kind of blew up on the venting chat. At this point we weren't talking at all anymore. I said that with all honesty, I didn't believe their story at all. The "I told the police I'm being seriously abused but they don't believe me" story? Bullshit. And I do apologize for how I acted that night. But hopefully now you understand why I said those things: Nia is a liar. And it's messed with way too many of you.

Deleted user

I was there when it happened.

Same. Watched the whole thing go down.

Deleted user

It's okay. I get it. I mean, like, if I had been wrong, I'd be a huge bitch.