forum Could I Rant For a Sec?

Started November 25, 2018 by @Vuclan-is-tired

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So, I'm struggling at the moment and I'm not sure what to do…

Rant to me my friend.

I’m here to listen

Okay, mostly it's relationship problems and ya know… I love my significant other more than myself and I'm just struggling, because I feel like they don't love me as much as I love them. I mean… I thought I could manage something myself, but I've felt kind of alone. I know they're busy and I know what we both don't have a lot of time together but it's just… I feel like they don't love me anymore… And things at home aren't any easier, school is hard because I just moved to a new school and it's just a mental mess in my head.

I'm here to help!

Okay, mostly it's relationship problems and ya know… I love my significant other more than myself and I'm just struggling, because I feel like they don't love me as much as I love them. I mean… I thought I could manage something myself, but I've felt kind of alone. I know they're busy and I know what we both don't have a lot of time together but it's just… I feel like they don't love me anymore… And things at home aren't any easier, school is hard because I just moved to a new school and it's just a mental mess in my head.

I've experienced all of these things darling… If you need help in school, please PM me and we'll figure it out together… As for your relationship, is it possible that you could maybe give me some examples of this?

Like, whenever I try to talks to him, he seems more distant. He's loving, yes, but they doesn't really spend much time with me. I love and adore them, but… I feel like they're pulling away from me.

I’ve never had a S.O. before, so I’m not sure how much help I can offer in that region. But I have moved before, and I can guarantee it’ll get better. I mean, it can be hard at first when you don’t know anyone, but things will get better. You just need to find your niche and things will get easier.

This might just be a phase they're going through. Monitor them and take mental note of their behaviors. If it gets to severe, just ask them, y'know, if they don't like you there's no point in continuing the charade…

Like, whenever I try to talks to him, he seems more distant. He's loving, yes, but they doesn't really spend much time with me. I love and adore them, but… I feel like they're pulling away from me.

Maybe try talking to them, asking if they are doing alright? Maybe something’s going on at home or with another friend? Idk if I’m much help oof…

I guess… It's just hard I guess. I've been there for like a week and a half and I've already made enemies.

Also, again with the subject of moving schools… I've been to three separate ones in one year at one point… I can confirm that it gets better, just find a place you belong…

And with my S.O. it seems like they're losing interest, even though they still show me affection.

Thanks Shuri…

I guess… It's just hard I guess. I've been there for like a week and a half and I've already made enemies.

That's usually how it goes… It will get better…

And with my S.O. it seems like they're losing interest, even though they still show me affection.

If they're losing interest… Well, tell me what they're interestedin, and we'll figure it out together…

It feels like they're losing interest in me… And it's hard… I love them unconditionally, and it feels like they don't… they're not even over their ex and I'm trying my hardest to help but its so hard…

What is some stuff they like?

I guess… It's just hard I guess. I've been there for like a week and a half and I've already made enemies.

Yeah, I’ve had that happen too. But you’ll find your place, it will work itself out eventually. I know it sucks right now, but it’ll get better!

Yeah… Like I said… I've been to three schools in one year… I can confirm that it gets better…

Bleu, you're a smart, competent, and awesome! You can do anything you put your mind too…

Thanks Shuri.

No problem…