forum Selective Mutism! Could someone lend me a hand?

Started December 09, 2020 by @RaindropsOnRoses

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I have a character with selective mutism (Samuel Glen), and while I may be self diagnosed with this same issue, I can't be sure…
So could someone look him over and please tell me if I'm doing something wrong with his character? I would be so grateful! ;v;

I think you did a great job! But here are some questions to consider:
Is there anyplace where Samuel feels safe? Is there anyone he feels safe with? Do his parents (or someone else) notice his anxiety? Does anyone try to talk to him about it? (It seems like he is Elijah Johnson Miller's best friend…is he able to speak to him with confidence?)
You described it well in the facts/mannerisms, and overall, his selective mutism seems well-developed. Maybe try to elaborate on some of his interests and stuff, too, as of course, he is more than his condition.
Hope this helped! :3

Thank you so much for your help! This advice is exactly what I needed! It's hard to step back and look at your character truthfully, especially when you've spent so long basically staring at them, trying to figure out what's off about them… -w-"
I'll make sure think about these important elements and add them to his character soon!
Thank you again and I hope you have a great day! :D

You're welcome!!
Hope you have a great day, too! :3

i have a couple questions - did your character develop it (as a result of something, it just came as he got older (like anxiety), or for some other reason)? is his quiet, sort of brooding nature because of the selective mutism or is that just his personality?
it's really cool to see this condition in a character. you are appreciated for your inclusivity! my friend's little sister has selective mutism and I bet she would find it cool to see a book with a character like her.

Hello! I'll try to answer your questions as best I can :D

1. No, his difficulty wasn't triggered by any past occurrences, selective mutism doesn't often affect someone due to a trauma. While this may happen at times, it usually has to do with ones genetics. Most times it's something to be passed down from a family member, usually along with (social) anxiety.
2. I actually based his personality off of what I think people see with me at first glance, cold, irritable, standoffish… The works! UvU
   But all jokes aside, I do believe having social anxiety and selective mutism can take a bit of a toll on your emotions and how you act around others. Imagine being alone with no one to talk to or understand you… seeing other children having fun conversations, laughing with each other… that could easily turn someone bitter, lonely and sad.
   Though, as the story progresses his more outgoing and playful side will begin to show.

Oh! Thank you for your kind words, I'm glad you find him interesting!
And I do hope you have a nice day! :>