forum Okay so I need dudes to answer my questions about romance™
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tune

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Okay, so I have a few questions about how guys fall in love and whatnot. I think it's pretty obvious why I don't know this.
1) Are there certain traits that most guys look for? (specifically, ones who care more for personality over looks)
2) What do they feel when they have a crush? I don't know if it's any different than a woman, but if it is? Yeah I wanna know this.
3) Do guys tend to have multiple crushes or just one? Or does it just depend on the guy?
If there's anything that should be added, or that I should take note of, please let me know

@PurpleWarrior22

I'm a guy who I think is going to stay single for a while, but I'll try to answer as best I can.
1.) Personalitywise, I would be looking for an open and honest person, someone who is a joy to be around and someone willing to put up with my quirks.
2.) Whenever I've had a crush, I've just had the urge to be close to that person a lot. It doesn't matter where, if they are hanging out somewhere, I wanted to be there.
3.) It depends on the guy in my experience, some guys find one person and stay with it just in case the crush is "the one", some guys can't help but fall for multiple…

And I realize the personality over looks is a nice thing and what I would look for, but most guys will be using looks involuntarily as criteria for crushing, so at least use that somewhat.
Let me know if you need anything else. Hope this helps!